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A blog about our busy family with two amazing kids, one of whom happens to have Down syndrome!

Tuesday, October 28, 2014

Fall fun

We had an unseasonably warm October day so after school the kids and I (along with Grandma Pam, Bubbles, Jesús and baby Timmy) went to a small local fall attraction.

There were pony rides, pumpkins, baby animals and grouchy ducks. Along with Laurens favorite, (fake) cows that she kept mooing at and calling over! Finally I had to tell her they were sleeping. And Ryan saved Lauren from an especially rude duck that tried to bite her. The nerve!

Luckily the kids were somewhat cooperative for pictures.

Saturday, October 4, 2014


We got Lauren's wheelchair!! Its so cute and very stroller like. Her bus driver and para will be thrilled. Ryan's jealous that she'll get to ride the bus ramp.

Check out that cuteness!! She was so pissed. Let's hope she gets happier about it.

Monday, September 15, 2014


Time is flying by. I can't even believe it's the middle of September already. The kids are both really enjoying school and making friends. Today Lauren didn't even cry when I dropped her off! They said she stops crying as soon as I'm out of sight but it makes me feel a million times better to leave her in a happy mood.

Since school started September 2nd she's said grandma, spoon, fishy and red (while correctly identifying the color!).

Ryan is flourishing as well. He does great with the classroom routine. He's been such a sweet heart. The parapro on the kids' bus just loves him and has told me twice how sweet he is and how lucky we are. All awesome things to hear!

My twin sister is due any minute with her second. We were over there today and Ryan noticed some baby items and asked what they were for. My sister told him they were for the new baby. Ryan turned and told his cousin, "These are for our brother!". Melt my heart! How on earth did I get so lucky to get these kids?!

Greg and I started a bible study with a few other couples. Our Young Marrieds class at church has kicked off. We're both working/school full time.

Life is going well over here. It's busy. It's wild. But it's so much fun.

I am content.

Thursday, September 11, 2014

Preschool Progress

Lauren's been in preschool for 2 weeks now. Today is the end of her second week.

So far, so good! She really seems to love it. She cries at drop-off, which surprises me. She's never cried when we leave her at church! Her teachers assure me that as soon as I leave she stops crying and waits with her friends on the bus bench.

Two of her teachers have children with special needs! This makes me so happy to know, I feel great knowing that her teachers are also parents who "get it". One of these teachers is Lauren's clear favorite, she's the one Lauren will go to when I drop her off.

This morning they told me that yesterday she was "the most verbal we've seen her yet"!!! She really has been talking more just in the last couple of weeks. Yesterday she said spoon and grandma. This morning she said baby. What a smart girl!!

Today was Ryan's first day riding the bus. Yesterday was the first day, but parents stayed. He just got home and said he loved the bus!! He told me he'll tell me about school "later" because he has to "work" right now. This means he's way too busy playing with all of his trains!

Man, I missed them!! It was a nice morning to myself and I got a lot done, but I missed them more than I thought I would.

Last year vs this year. My, how he's grown!

Tuesday, September 2, 2014


Lauren started preschool today!! Isn't that insane?

She's going Monday-Thursday from 9-12. She'll take the school bus home.

Today was mostly a meet and greet, we met her teachers. There are a TON of teachers for her classroom. 2 teachers and 2 para's plus PT, OT and ST teachers. PT/OT/ST will be push-ins throughout the day.

She's the only kiddo with Down syndrome in her class. She's actually the only kid in her class with a visible disability. The classroom is mostly SLI kids (speech language impaired). She's also the youngest (I think) and definitely the smallest. They were passing out the bus harnesses and seemed kind of panicked when they got to Lo. Luckily I jumped in to reassure them that she's getting her wheelchair next week for bus rides! She'll be in a car seat until then. She's much too small for the harness.

She really seemed to enjoy it! It was only an hour long today and parents stayed the whole time. She played with the toys, sat at the chairs and true to form, licked a couple of the tables. The teachers seem really awesome.

I'm sad to actually leave her there tomorrow and trust strangers to get her home. But I'm so, so excited for her at the same time. Preschool was one of my biggest worries when we got her diagnosis. I'm so glad she gets to have this experience!!

Don't worry, I took pictures!

Walking into school! WALKING!!!

Sitting at the table playing.

Playing with a classmate.

Loving preschool.

Bye, mom!
My heart is glad.

Sunday, August 17, 2014

Almost back to school. Send help.

Time is flying by. I know they say time flies when you're having fun, but dang. I can't believe it's already nearing the end of August. Lauren starts school in 2 weeks and Ryan in 3 weeks. Greg starts back to work/school tomorrow.

Yep, as of tomorrow I'm back to living a double life of being a full time working mom and a stay at home mom on my days off! The upside to being a nurse is working 3 days a week. The downside is cramming a full work week in 3 days.  It's been almost 2 years since Greg left his job to stay home. I feel so unprepared!! He seems to be a natural parent where I have to work at it a lot more.

Lauren is now walking unassisted. She's not too bad at it, either! Not too shabby for 2 and a half, if I do say so myself. It's hilarious because she wants to walk all the time now, even when it's not the best idea. And she doesn't even remotely follow directions...she walks wherever she feels like walking. Luckily, Ryan is a big helper and loves to chase his baby sister.

I can hardly believe she starts preschool in 2 short weeks. I remember getting our prenatal diagnosis and the first question I asked the genetic counselor was if she'd go to a regular preschool. Hello, overthink much? I'm so excited for her. And I truly don't at all care that it's a special ed preschool. Funny, I really thought it would matter, but it doesn't at all. It helps that Ryan will be going as well.

And Ryan. How is my tiny baby boy starting his last year of preschool? Didn't I just bring him home from the hospital, scared out of my mind and wondering why anyone would trust me with an infant? I still remember with utmost clarity the very moment I found out I was pregnant with him. I took a test to reassure myself I wasn't pregnant and the stick turned pink before I even got done peeing. The feelings of "oh shit" and "how amazing" swirled together like the best mix of terror and excitement and nausea all rolled into one.  I hope this school year lasts forever because next year he'll be in full day kindergarten and I don't think I'll ever be ready for that.

We just got back from an awesome northern Michigan vacation. It was so much fun, very relaxing and spent with 28 of the best family members a girl could ever ask for!

Ryan riding Sandy the Horse during a late night Meijer run

Lauren on a bike ride with Greg
Even the ever-popular Aunt Kristen stopped by on vacation! Sometimes friends are just as good as family...so you claim them as family. We love her!
Lauren decided to become a full time walker on vacation!

Our view from the "house". I don't really know what to call it. It was a huge 11 bedroom, 13 bathroom home on Wildwood Lake. Amazing!!
If you're thinking to yourself, "Wow, those kids look pissed to be having their picture taken!" it's because they were. Ain't nobody got time for that.
So now I have to re-learn how to parent by myself. I'm not exaggerating. Greg does everything around the house and takes awesome care of the kids while I sleep a lot during the day. Now I have to lose sleep AND start cleaning up after myself. I might even have to start doing laundry. :::shudder:::

Sunday, July 27, 2014


Why is it that summertime is so incredibly busy?! We don't have school for Ryan and we take summers off of therapy. But somehow it's even busier!

Lauren is now walking unassisted!!! She only does a few steps at a time and only if she feels like it. But it's so awesome! We could not be more proud. She is really proud too and as a parent, it's so great to watch your child do something they are proud of.

I can't believe it's already the end of July. We're going Up North on vacation in a couple weeks with my whole extended family on my dad's side. It's been so much fun in years past, so I really can't wait! Last year Ryan held a worm and touched a fish- both huge deals for my kiddo. Who knows what this year will hold?

Lauren had her wheelchair seating appointment a while back. The preschool wanted her to have one on the schoolbus since she's not a full time walker. It looks like our insurance isn't going to cover it. Good thing we pay such high premiums. I spoke with someone at her school about it and they said it's really not a big deal and we can put a car seat on a regular bus. Hallelujah!

This might make me a terrible person, but I'm actually looking forward to having both kids at school 4 mornings a week. Those mornings will often be used for sleeping due to my schedule, but just think! On my morning's "off" I can clean the house, read a book, go to the gym, go to Target...all by myself! I really will miss the kids, but dang!

Greg starts work/school mid-August and he's excited! After almost 2 years as a stay at home dad, he's more than ready to go to work. I don't blame him!

Lots of changes happening here!